select * from `app_user_relation` as `aur` inner join `app_user_login` as `aul` on aul.id=aur.user_id where aur.is_del=0 and aul.isdel=0 and aur.parent_id=#{userId}
select * from `app_user_relation` as `aur` inner join `app_user_login` as `aul` on aul.id=aur.user_id where aur.is_del=0 and aul.isdel=0 and aur.parent_id=#{userId}